Your body wants connection.
Your mind keeps finding a reason to pull away.
In this LIVE, we answer your questions about twin flames, separation, hyper-independence, and letting another human being love you.
Your Feeling Intelligence learned what love could feel like in childhood.
The mind repeats the treatment it learned.
The pattern lives in both people.
Vulnerability is the openness where connection can meet the pain.
Connection returns to your own body first. Then it can move between two people.
We share what this has felt like inside our own union, including feeling each other during separation, reconnecting and closing down, and letting somebody hold you when you hurt.
We also share our grief for Gemma, family changes, everyday life, and plenty of laughter. We speak candidly, with strong language and adult humor.
We are Lee and Sherry Patterson of Relationship Reinvented. Lee is The Connectionist. We have guided human beings since 2011, in more than thirty countries, and have been in union since August 2013.
We recorded this LIVE on October 28, 2026.
CHAPTERS
00:00 We welcome you into our morning LIVE
02:09 We talk about visions and connection
04:57 Sherry remembers her wedding experiences
07:58 We meet a question about rejection
08:47 Sherry pulls the Open to Love card
10:13 We share our grief for Gemma
12:34 We discuss plans for home retreats
14:43 Sherry marks five years out of hospice
16:19 We feel the changes in our family
18:42 Sherry explores the need to nurture
20:52 We include each other in daily life
21:31 We laugh about a digital antenna
25:48 We answer a question about connection to yourself
30:01 We open the conversation to your questions
31:06 We explore hyper-independence and receiving love
34:53 We trace independence back to childhood
36:07 We ask where the body learned to receive connection
39:50 We return to the wholeness of a felt connection
42:13 We look beyond labels to the whole human being
43:01 We explore how the mind repeats parental treatment
45:00 We ask how both parents supported connection
47:27 We meet the fear of having run from connection
50:37 Sherry shares feeling Lee during separation
51:14 We bring attention back from thinking to feeling
55:18 We ask how you let somebody stay and love you
56:11 We explore old patterns and Root Camp
57:39 We share how union became human being connection
58:35 We look at the needs left outside our roles
59:56 We discuss presence and openness
1:00:57 We meet the pain between two people
1:01:45 We ask how you let somebody hold you in pain
1:03:17 We explore judgment and family patterns
1:04:31 Sherry pulls the Leave the Battlefield card
1:05:33 Sherry pulls the Preparation Mode card
1:08:09 We question judgment and free will
1:09:21 We answer a question about flirting and trust
1:10:38 We talk about healing together in union
1:11:38 We share more about grief and family changes
1:14:32 We share how we recognize our connection
1:15:46 We point you toward our recorded journey
1:17:59 We offer a free 30-minute conversation
We share our books and sessions here:
https://www.relationshipreinvented.com/
We see and feel you.