Why Your Twin Flame Pulls Away: The Childhood Pattern | Part 2
Your twin pulls away.
Your body feels the rejection.
Your mind keeps pointing toward them while your own feeling waits to be met.
We speak about the childhood patterns that return in twin flame connection.
Your Feeling Intelligence learned what love felt like before your mind could explain it.
The mind can repeat the treatment the child received, and the familiar can become the body's definition of home.
The pattern lives in both people.
Pain with nobody there stays a knot. Pain that is met opens.
Connection returns to your own body before it can move between two people.
We share our lived experience of vulnerability, receiving love, reunion, and staying connected through pain.
We are Lee and Sherry Patterson, in union since August 2013. Lee is The Connectionist.
We recorded Part 2 of this Sunday LIVE on October 25, 2026.
Chapters
0:00:00 A church of connection for every belief
0:01:50 Earth, air, fire, water
0:03:37 Oneness needs wholeness: you are not half
0:05:58 Pain is the foundation: true love answers to pain
0:07:50 The flow of life is connection
0:12:23 Rooted in reaching
0:14:26 Our favorite part of the twin flame journey
0:16:09 When union is solid: what you call intensity is love
0:17:21 Friends or lovers first?
0:20:56 Invincible vulnerability
0:23:19 Why insecurities surface when you are apart
0:23:55 The age gap is a thought
0:26:02 When your twin lives far away
0:27:04 Connection covers everything
0:30:18 A whole human being, not another half
0:33:45 Your body knows, your mind talks you out of it
0:34:37 Point inside, not at your twin
0:41:39 How long we were in separation
0:42:12 Accepting the masculine and feminine within
0:45:12 Commitment is not connection
0:46:11 Your twin mirrors the child within
0:46:59 Make your feelings important
0:48:14 What about a good childhood?
0:49:59 Our first gift battle
0:53:18 Wanting to be chosen
0:56:41 Trust the truth
0:59:22 When someone holds you, the old wound changes
1:00:54 A hard week for our family
1:04:29 Retrograde becomes an upgrade with shared pain
1:05:42 Why exes come back
1:06:04 Self judgment and connection
1:08:59 Regret is rejection
1:10:27 You cannot heal what you will not feel
1:11:50 Going to him with thought instead of feeling
1:14:16 How your father held you: generational wounds
1:16:54 Connection does not play by the rules of relationship
1:19:20 Receive what you want to give
1:20:19 Fear is a thought, not a feeling
1:21:07 Feminine and masculine together
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