Questions About Lee and Sherry Patterson
Who are Lee and Sherry Patterson?
We are Lee and Sherry Patterson, twin flames in union since August 2013, authors, ordained ministers, and partners in life and in the healing we guide.
We have guided human beings together since 2011, in more than thirty countries, through remote sessions and Root Camp. We are the founders of Relationship Reinvented LLC.
We do not teach from theory. We teach from a union we live every day.
Lee writes and teaches as The Connectionist. It is his being, not a role or a title. Sherry is the author of The Origin of Twin Flames.
Nobody taught us this. Inside our own pain, this was shown to us.
What is human being connection?
Human being connection is two nervous systems meeting, being to being. It is not a role, a label, or a relationship to perform.
It is your feelings having a home with another human being. Not fixed. Not managed away. Met.
What you feel with someone today began long before them. Somewhere early, the reach went out and nothing came back. The body closed the reach and kept the need. The mind learned the treatment it received and replays it. The pattern lives in both people.
Connection returns to your own body first. Then it can move between two people.
Do Lee and Sherry teach twin flames?
No. We are twin flames in union, and we open our union to teach what it showed us: human being love and human being connection.
Twin flame connection is connection, not relationship. It is the clearest mirror of this healing, and this healing is for every human being who keeps living the same pattern in love, in family, and in friendship.
What does body first mean?
It means we do not start with mindset, manifestation, or analysis. We start with what your body feels right now.
The tightness in your chest. The lump in your throat. The pull in your belly.
The mind manages, judges, and punishes. Truth and aliveness live in the nervous system and the body.
Pain with nobody there stays a knot. Pain that is met opens.
What is Feeling Intelligence?
Feeling Intelligence is your first intelligence. It lived in you as a child, before thought arrived.
When a child is met by both parents' nervous systems, that feeling matures into intelligence, and the mind becomes a tool. When the child is not met, the mind becomes the master. Healing brings the mind back to being the child's tool.
What is The Connectionist Loop?
The Connectionist Loop is Lee's model of how connection comes home. It moves through four places: the psoas, where the closed reach lives; the vagus nerve; the mind, from master back to tool; and connection, being meeting being.
Connection runs from the nervous system to the mind, never the reverse. Inside Lee's pain, this was shown to him.
How is this different from other twin flame guidance?
Most twin flame content asks your mind to solve your connection: signs, stages, labels, and waiting for the other person to change.
We ask your body to feel it. Union is not something you think your way into. Union is what happens when two people can stay connected without abandoning themselves.
And you are met by both of us, together, in every session. Both sides of a living union, in the same room with you.
Is your union codependent?
No. Codependency is a thought pattern that makes one person responsible for the other.
We see each other as whole, masculine and feminine together, with no separation between us. We choose a life of togetherness, healing, living, and resting in connection, because connection is home, not because we fear being apart.
What is Root Camp?
Root Camp is the deepest healing path we guide. It begins with your first childhood memory, the first place you learned to disconnect, and walks you back to your roots one hour at a time, with both of us beside you.
Root Camp is held in blocks of 26 one-hour sessions. Learn about Root Camp.
Where do I begin?
Begin with a free 30-minute gift session with us: schedule your gift session.
Read our books, written for the nervous system: see our books.
Watch our journey on YouTube, and join us live every Friday at 7:30 PM Eastern on TikTok.
How do I reach Lee and Sherry?
Email us at relationshipreinvent@me.com or connect@relationshipreinvented.com, or call 513-399-7718.
We are based in Ohio and meet human beings remotely around the world.
We see and feel you.